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Do you believe in love at first sight?



















I have to say for me, I've always believed it, in a fairy tale kind of way. You know, like the way you believe in Santa Claus or the story of Cinderella, etc..., and I have to admit that though I've become older, I gotta' tell you that I, in a small way still believe in those dreamy fairy tales, call me crazy, but I do! I mean even though I learned that my family was the actual (Santa Claus) I still believe, in that story. But with that being said, I always believed that love at first sight indeed happens. I just never believed it could or actually would happen to me, in my life.

I encountered this years ago, it was one of the most amazing things that has ever happened to me. I mean, I really felt like I was shot by an arrow of cupid. It happened just as simple as this; he walked in, my head was down, he asked me a question, I looked up to respond and our eyes locked; I can't even begin to describe the feeling that entered inside of my being, my mind, my entire soul... I felt at that moment I had no control over what I was feeling. I then gave him what he asked for, he said thank you, I replied, you're welcome. The feeling was so strong and electric, it was undeniable that he felt it too. I still remember the look on his face, his facial expression manifested the way I was feeling on the inside, like WOO!!!

Which to me translated all wrong because my dress was wrinkled, my hair was a mess, my mind was in a shambles because (behind the scenes of my life) I was handling, juggling, carrying and experiencing so much and it seemed that I was on my way to a break down and it seemed like God knew what to do, because in that moment of meeting that guy and and having that eye locking experience for that second (or however long it was) I was in Euphoria. My eyes followed him to the door and after he was gone, I found I could breathe. I felt like I could do and be anything when he left. So, back to the question, do you believe in love at first sight? As for me, I do: But the question is did he believe in love at first sight too? LOL!!! I guess I'll never know.

Love,
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Northbaywriter said…
I absolutely do believe in love at first sight!!! It happened to me and the object of my desire reported picking up on the same 'electricity'. :)

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